16 Juli 2010

The relationship that I want


The relationship that I wanna is the relationship with that’s based on a strong emotional bond. Hopely, me and he have quite a lot of emotional investment with each other, and may depend on each other for emotional security.

And I hope, we have possess a house together, and ideal for a marriage partnership. Together we – me and he have a powerful urge to nest, and find a safe harbor with each other away from the rest of the world.

So the man I hope can share life together with me is someone who I may also find that he is the place that i go somewhat unconscious around our mutual desire and shut the world out without necessarily intending to do.

I also may need to beware that the relationship becomes such a safe haven that i don't allow the natural give and take of contrary opinions to be expressed freely between us.

Hopely in our relationship, we have benefit when we find a positive outlet for our shared empathy, and allow other energy to come and go as part of our connection. Our relationship can evokes an emotional intensity that forges creativity and wakefulness. In essence then, this connection is less about treat and more about recharge.

We can enjoy the strong emotional bond that we have with each other and still keep the partnership energizing and fruitful.